Third Eye Views

Today I went to a department store and guess what I saw from wall to wall and floor to ceiling?  Christmas decorations!  Thanksgiving isn’t until next week, but we know that department stores like to start decorating early…really early.    With the Holiday season upon us, many times we focus on how to make ourselves available to others.  Where should I go for Thanksgiving?  Should I have it at my house? Who should I put on my Christmas list?  Should I stay home this New Year’s Eve or go out with friends?

These are just some of the questions we ask ourselves this time of year, which is why this is one of the most stressful times of the year.  But in the mist of all the stress, don’t forget to take time out for yourself.  We all know that the Holiday season is about giving, but what it is not about is depleting yourself.  Whether it is money, time or energy, always remember, you can give a little more next year!  Also, if you’re alone this holiday season, please don’t waste your time wallowing in sorrow. I know that not being with family or loved ones during the Holidays can be a bummer, but use that energy to do something positive like taking a trip to a new city or exploring new places in your own city.  Believe me; it’s nothing like having a bottle of champagne all to yourself when ringing in the New Year!

Unlike previous years, I will definitely be taking some time for myself this Holiday season.  It’s winter and I need to hibernate, reflect and get ready for the beautiful transitions that will come once this season is over.  I suggest you do the same.